Is BDSM in play space a part of your erotic vocabulary, something that SPICES up your life, but not your 24/7 identity? Then you are a SPICER. Isn't that a better description than "weekender" or "someone who plays with it but isn't a real kinkster"? The Spicer pot luck and discussion is a chance to meet other Spicers like yourself, and to discuss and share ideas, dreams, fantasies and desires.

The Spicer meet-up was formed in response to a discussion on an NM FetLife thread , where many said they sometimes feel like second-class citizens in the kink community because they do not aspire to being a full-time Dom/Master or sub/slave. Some of us look at it this way - we can love oral sex without identifying as a "cocksucker"!

So if you like power exchange during play time but not all day, come join this fun, SPICY group for a lively evening.

We're meeting in a private home rather than a restaurant so we don't have to pay for dinner, and have way more privacy. Everyone is welcome, including full-timers who'd like to get to know and understand us Spicer types better!

We'll have a pot luck from 5-6, discussion from 6-8, then further socializing or hot tubbing under the stars from 8-10. We chose the rather early time so those from Albuquerque can get home before it is too late.

Hope to see you!

Nancy Ava Miller will be attending this meeting! Want to hang out with Nancy and other friendly kinky folk? Email mimc@ftml.net NOW!



You can always call Nancy at (505) 281-6262, any hour, with questions about local NM events and PEP .

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